- Local Queer and Kinky Resources
- SF LGBTQ Institutions
- SF Leather & LGBTQ Readings
- Leather / Kink Info Lists
- LGBTQ Info Lists
- Health Resources
- Publications and Periodicals
- Kink Community Resources for People of Color
- Kink Community Resources for People With Disabilities
Local Queer and Kinky Resources
Calendars
- Race’s Bar Events for Kinky Gay Men of the San Francisco Bay Area
- EROBAY SF Bay Area Community BDSM Events Calendar
- Fetlife A Social Network for the BDSM, Fetish & Kinky Community. (Free membership required)
- Folsom Street The big street fairs and parties
- The 15 Association For Men who Engage in BDSM.
- ONYX Northwest A Leather Club for Men of Color
- ELSE For trans, intersex, third gender, agender, two-spirit, & nonbinary folx.
- The Exiles women- and queer- centered BDSM educational organization.
- Society of Janus for People Interested in Learning about BDSM
- Alta California Leather Corps Formerly the Alameda County Leather Corps
- Wicked Grounds Kink Community Everywhere
- Transform1060 A community-run non-profit educational and social space, serving the leather, kink, and fetish communities.
- SF CumUnion Sex Parties for Men
- 442 Events Play Parties for Men
- SF Catalyst (See Transform1060, above)
- SF Oasis Internationally Acclaimed Drag Show Nightclub / Cabaret
- Powerhouse South of Market’s “No Attitude” Cruise Bar
- SF Eagle SOMA’s Historic Meeting Place, Welcoming All
- Lone Star Saloon Bear Bar USA
- Hole in the Wall Saloon Your Friendly Neighborhood Gay Bikers Bar
- Cat Club A True San Francisco Nightlife Destination
- The Stud “San Francisco’s oldest LGBT bar”
- The LEATHER & LGBTQ Cultural District Keeping SOMA Queer and Kinky
- The Gay Calendar LGBTQ Events in San Francisco
- The Leather Journal Monthly print journal includes leather event calendar. (Web site does not)
- GayTravel4U List of International Gay Fetish and Leather Events
Clubs & Organizations
- The 15 Association — For men who Engage in BDSM.
- Alta California Leather Corps — For people with an interest in leather, Levi’s, uniforms, and latex in the East Bay area
- Bay Area Sober in Leather (BASiL) — Folks in the sober; or clean and sober leather community
- Bay Area Bi/Pan Kinky Adults (BABKA) — A place for kinky people who like kinky people to meet and connect
- Bears of San Francisco — All-inclusive, community-based, and body-positive
- Black Kink Bay Area — A social group for young, black professionals who wish to promote sex-positivity
- BLUF SF — A group for men interested in leather, rubber and other fetish attire
- BOBA Munch — A munch for the Bay Area Asian American community
- Boundless Events — Kink-focused classes, social events and play parties
- Daughters of Medusa, Bay Area — Devoted to the support of trans leather women and non-binary trans individuals
- ELSE — An educational, support, and social kink space for adults who identify as non-cis.
- The Exiles — women- and queer- centered BDSM educational organization.
- FFister.com — Connecting gay FFisters around the world
- Folsom Street — A non-profit arts and culture organization that produces iconic events that benefit our whole community
- Foundations — Donation-based, all-volunteer, kink, BDSM and leather education/social group
- Gear Up Weekend — Bay Area gay male kinksters and fetish enthusiasts, centered around an annual retreat
- Homoto Motorcycle Club — A queer and queer friendly motorcycling club based in the San Francisco Bay Area
- House of Kush — Leather association committed to cannabis education, safety and advocacy
- Kinky People of Color — A fun, safe, social space for POC and their allies
- LEATHER & LGBTQ Cultural District — Keeping our South of Market neighborhood queer and kinky
- Mahogany Munch — a safe, respectful event for People of Color to connect, network and share
- MAsT SF — Discussion group for those interested in the Master/slave relationship
- ONYX Northwest — A leather club for men of color
- Rope Burn SF — Rope bondage skill-share for men (male-identified, non-binary, or gender non-conforming persons)
- The San Francisco Bay Area Leather Alliance — for the SF Bay Area leather, fetish, kink and motorcycling communities
- San Francisco Leathermen’s Discussion Group — Monthly presentations relevant to kinky guys and their allies
- San Francisco girls of Leather — For self-identified leathergirls, regardless of race, creed, orientation or gender
- The San Francisco K9 Unit — A social and educational organization for people who enjoy “puppy play”
- San Francisco Leather Lounge — Online and real-life social gatherings for leather/gear/cigar/boots/rubber kinksters
- San Francisco The Next Generation (SF TNG) — Social group for kinksters ages 18 through 40 and their partners
- Service Pups of San Francisco — A passionate pack of Kinksters, committed to serving our community with open hearts and open paws
- Society of Janus — for people Interested in learning about BDSM
- Team Friendly Bay Area — Reducing the stigma of HIV, one conversation at a time
- The Unruly Social Club — Leather, kink & BDSM group of BIPOC trans & cis women, non binary, & GNC folks
- The Yellow and Black Group — For and about adults who enjoy watersports
Queer & Kinky Bars and Night Clubs in the Cultural District
- Cat Club — A True San Francisco Nightlife Destination
- Hole in the Wall Saloon — Your Friendly Neighborhood Gay Bikers Bar
- Lone Star Saloon — Bear Bar USA
- Powerhouse — South of Market’s “No Attitude” Cruise Bar
- Oasis — Internationally Acclaimed Drag Show Nightclub / Cabaret
- SF Eagle — SOMA’s Historic Meeting Place, Welcoming All
- Azúcar Lounge – Mezcal, cocktails, and Mexican food, with dim lights & sofas.
- AsiaSF — Dinner Show / Cabaret with the Transgender Ladies Of AsiaSF
Sex Party Organizers and Venues
- 442 Events — Play parties for men
- After Dark Events — Organizers of Aura, Spank, Blush, Sin, and other carefully curated, inclusive parties for discerning adults
- Express Yourself — Play parties For People of Color
- Horse Market SF — Private events for men, modeled after Fickstutenmarkt or “Stallion and Mare” parties
- SF CumUnion — Sex parties for men
- Stopgap — A turnkey kink venue for the San Francisco kink community
- Transform 1060 — Play parties for different groups on different nights
- Trophy Dad — Producer of PRIME and DAD IN TRAINING events
- Truck SF — Notorious parties for men
To add or correct info about your organization, please write to Web@sflcd.org.
San Francisco LGBTQ Institutions
- SF LGBT Center
- GLBT Historical Society
- SF Public Library Hormel Center
- Lyric (LGBTQQ youth & their families)
- PFLAG (LGBTQ+ Families)
- San Franciscso Pride (Parade and Celebration)
- SF AIDS Foundation
- Lyon Martin Community Health Services
- Magnet at Strut
San Francisco Leather, Kink, LGBTQ Readings
- Citywide Historic Context Statement for LGBTQ History in San Francisco
- Folsom Street Gulch, 1970s A historical essay by Gayle S. Rubin
- Recognizing, Protecting and Memorializing South of Market LGBTQ Social Heritage Neighborhood Resources, July 18, 2011
- LEATHER & LGBTQ Cultural District Brochure
Leather and Kink Information and Resource Lists
- The Kinky Gay Man’s Guide to the San Francisco Bay Area
- Race’s Bar ((Facebook membership required)
- Diversity Resources in the Kink Community
- BDSM & Kink Resources in Multiple Languages
- Bound Together’s List of BIPOC BDSM Resources
- Resources for Kinky People of Color
- The Center for Positive Sexuality’s List of Sexuality Resources
- Queer Cafe’s Overview of BDSM information Online
- GayTravel4U list of Gay, Leather and Fetish Events
- NCAF Kink And Poly Aware Professionals Directory
LGBTQ Information and Resource Lists
- LGBTQ Community Services (SF.gov)
- Community Resources (UCSF)
- SF LGBT Center Resource List
- GLAAD’s LGBTQ Resource List
- Juanita More’s List of Local LGBTQIA+ Mental Health Resources
- LGBTQ Guide to Online Safety (vpnMentor)
- LGBTQ+ Entrepreneur Toolkit (Berkeley Extension)
- Queer Resources in the Bay Area (Do the Bay)
Health Resources for the Leather and LGBTQ Communities
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- Mpox:
- Meningococcal Disease:
- Gender and Health:
- Mental Health:
- Mental health and substance use resources (SF.gov)
- TGNCI mental health (SF.gov)
- Resources for Emotional Support and Well-being (California For All)
- Free Crisis Counseling and Emotional Support (CalHOPE)
- Rehab & Recovery Services in San Francisco (Start Your Recovery)
- GAYLESTA Resource List
- LGBTQ+ Resources (National Alliance on Mental Illness)
- Drugs, sex & mental health (SF AIDS Foundation)
- San Francisco Community Health Center
- Kink Aware Professionals
- SF Therapy Collective
- Other Health Issues:
- LGBT Health Services (CDC)
- LGBTQIA+ Health (UCSF Library)
- Building Healthy Online Communities (Also in Spanish)
- Get Tested for HIV, STD, and Hepatitis (CDC)
- PreP (Pre-Exposure HIV Prevention) (PleasePrepMe.org)
- LGBTQ+ Health Resources (CDPH)
- STI Prevention Steps (CDC)
- STD Testing Conversation Starters (health.gov/)
- Post-Exposure Prophylaxis against STIs (SFDPH)
- Doxy PEP for prevention of STIs (SFAF)
Publications and Periodicals
The LEATHER & LGBTQ Cultural District does not endorse or review the resources listed above. Use these links at your own risk.
To add or correct info about your organization, or to suggest additional resources for this page, please write to web@SFLCD.org.
Kink Community Resources for People of Color
Kink Community Resources for People With Disabilities