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SPANK!

October 9, 2021 @ 8:00 pm - October 10, 2021 @ 8:00 pm PDT

$30

10/9: SPANK!

San Francisco’s Hottest Spanking Party!

You must be over the age of 18 and fully vaccinated against COVID-19 to enter this event. We will be verifying that all attendees have been fully vaccinated prior to being allowed to enter the party.

SPANK! – San Francisco’s Hottest Spanking Party!

Almost everyone has incorporated spanking in some form into their kinky bag of tricks. SPANK is a pansexual celebration of that erotic art of spanking – from sensual sensation play to butt-blistering beatings, and everything and anything in between.

At SPANK we provide an inclusive space where people of all experience levels may explore, learn, connect and play. While spanking is the focus of the night, only your imagination can limit the kind of fun you have at San Francisco’s hottest spanking party!

We invite you to join in the revelry at SPANK! Bring your creativity, your energy, your awesome self. This party is a perfect way to celebrate your love of spanking at a fun party. See old friends, make new ones, and play the night away!

Here is what you can look forward to at SPANK:

  • Ice-breakers to Help You Connect: Role stickers: Are you a top, bottom or switch? We will have stickers for you to wear to help you meet the kinds of kinksters you want to meet. Use our conversation-starters to spark connections.
  • Demo: For this party we we will have a power spanking demo! Stay tuned for further details!
  • House Tops: Come and get a spanking courtesy of our wonderful house tops! House top line-up will be announced soon!
  • Delicious Spread for when a different kind of hunger strikes.
  • Atmosphere: From the unique community dungeon space to the percussive music or from the sexy outfits to the delicious snacks, The newly expanded Catalyst provides a great backdrop to a night of spanking fun.
  • Feeling Welcome and accepted
    This party is for adults of all gender identities, sexual orientations, relationship configurations, ethnicities, body types, roles, and experience levels. We expect all attendees to honor the diversity of the spanking and BDSM communities, and will not tolerate behavior or language to the contrary at SPANK.

Where: SF Catalyst,1060 Folsom Street, San Francisco, CA 94103
When: Saturday October 9th 2021, 8 PM -1 AM
Entry: Prepaid tickets are highly recommended to get a lower price and to save your spot. 10% of all ticket sales will go into a special fund to enable access to the event for low-income community members. For low income tickets please email info@afterdark-events.com or Fetmail a host.

  • Online: $30 (Prepaid)
  • Door: $40
  • Volunteers: See thread in the AfterDark Events group two weeks before the event.

Consent is Paramount

Part of our responsibility in fostering a consent culture is to provide guidance to help prevent consent incidents from happening at our events. Any consent concerns can be given to the hosts at the party or here on Fetlife, with a promise of confidentiality if desired.
Informed and voluntary consent is always required before play. The entire scope of any scene, including what parts of the body there may be contact with and the nature of such contact, should be negotiated prior to beginning any actual play.
People at our events come from different backgrounds and have vastly different life experiences. All attendees may expect to be treated by event staff and other attendees with respect irrespective of age, ethnicity, sexual orientation, gender identity, body type, disability, etc.
People can expect that their persons and property shall not be touched without prior permission.
Attendees should not be addressed as “Mistress”, “Sir”, “slut”, “slave”, etc. or any potentially offensive terms or violating words unless they have given prior permission.

  • Each participant in a scene is responsible for making sure that everyone involved in the scene has the mental and emotional ability to give informed and voluntary consent for the scene. We consider people who are under the influence of substances, in subspace or otherwise not in a clear state of mind to be incapable of giving informed and voluntary consent.
  • While playing, players may not do anything that was not already explicitly agreed to.
  • Any participant in a scene has the right to withdraw consent at any time by means of an agreed-upon safeword, a non-verbal safesign or using the house safeword “SAFEWORD”. Once consent is withdrawn, all activity in the scene must stop.
    For any consent related questions or concerns please contact us confidentially at info@afterdark-events.com.

Details

Start:
October 9, 2021 @ 8:00 pm PDT
End:
October 10, 2021 @ 8:00 pm PDT
Cost:
$30
Website:
https://fetlife.com/events/1016311

Venue

SF Catalyst
1060 Folsom Street
San Francisco, CA 94102 United States
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