Events
Includes LEATHER & LGBTQ Cultural District events, events organized by other San Francisco Cultural Districts, and other events of interest happening in SOMA.
All times are Pacific Time.
See links to additional calendar pages at the bottom of this page
Gender Upheaval Party – THEYFRIEND Day 5
November 17 @ 7:00 pm PST
🎉 Say Goodbye to Gender Reveals — It’s Time for a Gender Upheaval! 🎉
Hosted by the outrageous Vin Seaman / LOL McFiercen and featuring beats from DJ phishr_price, this isn’t your typical party—it’s a full-blown GENDER REVOLT! 🌀
No more balloons, smoke cannons, or pastel confetti mishaps. We’ve burned the blue and pink rulebook and replaced it with fierce performances, radical joy, and unapologetic gender expression!
With show-stopping acts from:
✨ Libra Longlegs
✨ Mama Celeste
✨ phishr_price
✨ Weyam Al-Ghadban
✨ Queer Dance Freakout (Chicago)
✨ PLEEAY
🤩 Bonus: Strut your stuff on our participatory RAINBOW RUNWAY, where you can make your grand nonbinary “coming out” debut—because the only reveal we care about is the one that’s true to you!
It’s time to ditch the binaries and party like gender is an infinite playground. Come for the art, stay for the revolution. Let’s blow the lid off gender expectations—one glitter bomb at a time! 🌈💣
For other THEYFRIEND events on Facebook, visit: https://www.facebook.com/events/1225765511840713
For more information about THEYFRIEND, participating artists and accessibility, please visit diamond-wave.org/theyfriend.
To add your event(s) to this calendar, please write to Web@sflcd.org.
Additional Event Calendars:
Race’s Bar Events for Kinky Gay Men of the San Francisco Bay Area (Facebook membership required)
EROBAY SF Bay Area Community BDSM Events Calendar
Fetlife A Social Network for the BDSM, Fetish & Kinky Community. (Free membership required)
Gay Agenda SF What’s what for the gay in you.
The 15 Association For Men who Engage in BDSM.
ONYX Northwest A Leather Club for Men of Color
The Exiles A BDSM group for Women and Nonbinary Folks.
Society of Janus for People Interested in Learning about BDSM
Wicked Grounds Coffee, Kink, Community
Transform1060 A community-run non-profit educational and social space, serving the leather, kink, and fetish communities.
SF CumUnion Sex Parties for Men
442 Events Play Parties for Men
SF Catalyst (See Transform1060, above)
SF Oasis Internationally Acclaimed Drag Show Nightclub / Cabaret
Powerhouse South of Market’s “No Attitude” Cruise Bar
SF Eagle SOMA’s Historic Meeting Place, Welcoming All
Lone Star Saloon Bear Bar USA
Hole in the Wall Saloon Your Friendly Neighborhood Gay Bikers Bar
Cat Club A True San Francisco Nightlife Destination
Gaytravel4u Gay Fetish and Leather Events and Parties Worldwide
Leathermen Travel List of annual leather events